physical attraction, love

 i need to say first that looks eventually fade with time

and when i refer to love i mean love to old age

do you have to be attracted to someone physically (and emotionally+romantically) in order to be truly in love?

is it the eventual strong romantic and emotional attraction that keeps the love alive even when age takes away good looks?

okay, for instance two young people are in love for the first month because only they were physically attracted to eachother.

then they got to know eachother and they really felt at level. 

now what would it be like if both werent physically attracted to eachother initially?

that relationship wouldnt be existing at all then?

a positive perception of someone you are initially purely physically attracted leads to eventual emotional and romanti attraction and then love/relationship

i guess it would be less fair to unnattractive people then

sidetracked, havent gone back to actual question

okay, then physical attraction IS needed.

if ill put it into my viewpoint. i will admit, i have lots of people i feel attracted to purely from how they look. its a shallow side of me which i dislike. 

maybe love isnt for everyone maybe..