a good time with friends are ones where it doesent revolve around money

 something ive come to realise since i started to actually go out on dedicated hangout occasions with friends was how often we'd spent money

i generally dont like spending much money, and even more so if the whole hangout is a activity that requires lots of money.

so, ideally, something like exploring (be it public transit usually) with minimal money spending accompanied by costless talking and connecting with eachother makes a wonderful, memorable, great time. 

adventuring, exploring, travelling

now with food, you have to spend money, it can be fine i guess, though i dont want it to be the main part of the experience

i am aware that some experiences require very much money

i just want to say that spending time with friends without spending much money feel a lot better than ones that do